Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Signs That Your Husband/Wife Is Cheating

By Jean N. Zomberg

The issue of a cheating spouse is not new. We may have seen infidelity from someone we know experience this painful ordeal. But if you and your partner are the persons involved, it is really hard see the clear picture. To give you clear ideas about cheating spouse, here are the signs you should be looking for:

Privacy becomes a major concern If before you used to share openly to almost everything but suddenly changed and he or she begins to pay more attention in his or her privacy, something must be going on, especially if your partner cannot explain the reason why.Suspect that your partner is cheating if you can't access his or her email, if his or her cellphone is always kept under his or her pillows, or if there are information that are now kept secretly when they are used to be open to both of you.

Work becomes the main reasion why he is always away Because work is the only thing you cannot go against with, infidel spouses tend to use it as the excuse to stay out late.Suspect that your spouse is doing something out of the ordinary if he or she stays out longer and more frequent than usual, if he or she goes out during odd hours using work as an excuse, or if he is putting more time on work than usual.

Staying late to go online Some jobs are by nature, require a person to stay in front of the computer all the time, you know when to suspect that your spouse is spending more time in the computer.Remember that modern technology enables cheating spouses to have an affair without leaving your home.

Behavior that doesn't add up Overtime that does not reflect to the pay slip, missing pay slip without good explanation, missing time that could not explain, receipts for the things you don't have, scent that is neither yours nor your spouse, there are just some of the things that don't make sense at all unless proven otherwise.Your spouse can get away for sometime, but you know if he or she is hiding something from you.

Denying yourself that something is not right More often than not, your intuition is the best indicator that something wrong is happening. So if you continuously deny yourself and consistently look for excuses to disregard your spouse's behavior, then something may not be right.

Jumping into conclusion is not adviced, you have to look for evidences that your spouse is really commiting infidelity.Denial is the main reason why it is hard to catch your cheating spouse, but once you get away from it, you may be able to see clearer.

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2 comments:

  1. My husband and i got Married last year and we have been living happily for a while. We used to be free with everything and never kept any secret from each other until recently everything changed when he got a new Job in NewYork 2 months ago. He has been avoiding my calls and told me he is working,i got suspicious when i saw a comment of a woman on his Facebook Picture and the way he replied her. I asked my husband about it and he told me that she is co-worker in his organization,We had a big argument and he has not been picking my calls,this went on for long until one day i decided to notify my friend about this and that was how she introduced me to Mr James(Worldcyberhackers@ gmail.  com) a Private Investigator  who helped her when she was having issues with her Husband. I never believed he could do it but until i gave him my husbands Mobile phone number. He proved to me by hacking into my husbands phone. where i found so many evidence and  proof in his Text messages, Emails and pictures that my husband has an affairs with another woman.i have sent all the evidence to our lawyer. I just want to thank Mr James for helping me because i have all the evidence and proof to my lawyer,I Feel so sad about infidelity.


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  2. I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. i was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, i saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation about my wife to him and he said he was going to help me.I gave him all the informations he required and afterwards i received all my wife’s phones Text messages and calls, I was hurt when i saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but i am glad Mr james was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via email(worldcyberhackers@gmail.com) or Text/call : +12317945543

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