Tuesday, November 3, 2009

The 4 Most Common Signs Of A Cheating Partner

By Kristin Thorne

If you start suspecting your spouse of infidelity, your whole existence probably falls to pieces. As much as the two of you were in love in the beginning, and had promised each other eternal love and devotion, something just changed as time went by. But nobody knows your spouse better than you, so if you notice that your wife or your husband has changed towards you, of course you become suspicious!

You may still love your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend, but maybe suddenly you begin to see a different behavioral pattern with him or her. Your spouse may bit by bit seem to become cool and cold hearted and you don't have a clue why.

You may now start to suspect that your partner is having an affair with another person, but you have no way of proving it. Confronting them directly with your suspicions might cause quite a stir, because there might be a perfectly normal explanation to their different behavior.

But please don't rush into saying or doing anything that you shouldn't, before you have read about the 4 things that cheating spouses have in common:

1. Unusual cellphone behavior. You notice that your spouse hides their cellphone from you, and leaves the room to have private conversations. You may even find out that all call details and text messages are erased.

2. Smelling from a different fragrance or cologne than usual. Have you detected that? Maybe your partner has become more self-conscious about their looks suddenly, and that could be a definite sign that something is going on behind the scenes.

3. Popping out at unusual hours. Working late all the time, attending endless meetings, and seeing people you haven't even known to exist! Just showing a very suspicious behavior!

4. Sudden need for secrecy in front of their computer. Their internet history constantly being deleted, suspicious behavior while checking e-mails and during online chatting, and even unexpected password protection.

Here above you see just a few examples of cheaters' common behavior. But the thing is, that although your gut feeling tells you that your spouse is having an affair with someone else, you can't accuse them without solid proofs. And don't forget to think about your own health and happiness! Suspecting, but not knowing for sure can have a deep impact on you.

So how can you prove that your partner is unfaithful to you?

Don't come outright and ask your partner if they are having an affair, because you will most probably just hear a bunch of lies. It is an absolutely necessity that you build a strong case against them first prior to facing them.

You could hire an expensive private investigator to gather evidence for you, or you could just as well do it yourself by following proven methods used by private investigators worldwide for decades, for the price of one meal!

Amongst the things you need to learn is, how to reverse look up cellphone numbers, how to un-delete deleted text messages, and how to catch your cheating partner even when they are nowhere around! You also need to learn how to secretly access their phone records, capture e-mail passwords, and credit card statements!

It is also extremely important for you to prepare yourself verbally, legally and emotionally before you confront your partner. You have to be 100% sure that all your bases are covered, so they won't be able to lie themselves out of their problems!

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