Ok so maybe now this blog has become somewhere for me to vent more than anything. That's ok because anyone reading this in a similar situation will not be able to help it but laugh.
So this weekend turned out to be a crap. Friday night she was mysteriously "soooo tired" so i left her house and went to hang with my friends. She called Saturday morning and we met at the gym. We then we back to our respective residences, got cleaned up and then met for lunch. The afternoon was ok.
Saturday night we had plans to go to a bar to see a friends band play. I HATE this bar because it is in the most incestuous town in our state. Everyone knows everything about everyone. I am sure you know the place! A side note: this is the same bar she was observed about a year ago hooking up with someone else. I don't like the place.
the night went ok, everyone got a little drunk. We got home and got into bed...she rolled over and went to sleep. Ahhh the story of my life.
Sunday we were going to go to a hockey game together which she bailed on. I went with her sister instead. The whole time she was texting me as to when we were coming home. (If you so damned concerned why the hell didn't you come???) When I did get home I went to go hang with her and she had the crappiest attitude. I had a few beers and the game so I went to sleep. She woke me up for dinner and then that was the end of the day.
I will write about yesterday tomorrow.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Friday, March 27, 2009
Friday Night; 11:30pm
Well as the title says its Friday night. If anyone reading this has been in my position before then maybe you can relate to what I am about to say. I used to look forward to the weekends. I would get excited about going out, seeing some friends maybe catching a band somewhere.
Now its not the same. I usually just wonder what kind of stupid shit is she going to do to piss me off. And, of course, because I know whats going on every little thing is going to piss me off.
So that is why I am at home tonight writing this. Its really amazing how much cheating can make someone think so differently. When you are the cheatee it really messes up your whole thought process. That's enough for now. I hope people actually read this!
Now its not the same. I usually just wonder what kind of stupid shit is she going to do to piss me off. And, of course, because I know whats going on every little thing is going to piss me off.
So that is why I am at home tonight writing this. Its really amazing how much cheating can make someone think so differently. When you are the cheatee it really messes up your whole thought process. That's enough for now. I hope people actually read this!
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Last Thing For Today
In the spirit of research...I am moving in with her at the end of the month. You may want to follow this blog!!!
Must Have Resources
As I said in my story, I am a private investigator. I shared a few of our resources in my story but I figured I would add a post with a few links of sites that may be able to help. Some of them are E books that experts have published on the cheating subject. Take some time to read their stuff, they actually know what they are talking about!
This site offers a ton of tactics to catch a cheater, boyfriend or girlfriend, wife or Husband.
Catch a Cheater Tactics
This site offers an instant E book on how to expose that cheater.
Expose The Cheater
This site is great if your suspected cheater uses the same computer as you. This is some ASWESOME software that you can instantly download and track everything that is done on the computer!
Computer Tracking
As I come across different articles and sites I will be sure to post them so check my blog often . As Always, Catch them!!!
This site offers a ton of tactics to catch a cheater, boyfriend or girlfriend, wife or Husband.
Catch a Cheater Tactics
This site offers an instant E book on how to expose that cheater.
Expose The Cheater
This site is great if your suspected cheater uses the same computer as you. This is some ASWESOME software that you can instantly download and track everything that is done on the computer!
Computer Tracking
As I come across different articles and sites I will be sure to post them so check my blog often . As Always, Catch them!!!
My Cheating Story Hahahahaha!
My Little Story
Considering this is my small little spot on the great big internet I am going to use it to tell my story. I will promise that it is a good one. Well, entertaining at least!
This is 100% true.
One relevant item of information is I am employed as a full time private investigator. Every day I have to deal with cheating spouses, girlfriends and boyfriends, divorces, infidelity, background searches, criminal histories, the list goes on and on. I see this stuff everyday and still fell for it. HAHA!
Along the way I am going to point out some useful resources that you may find helpful if you can relate to my story.
Where to begin? I was fresh out of college and making my way in a new state with a new job and making new friends. I was beginning to belong to a new group of people and I was loving life. Then, as we all know, things change. I met someone who seemed different than the rest of the girls out there. She really caught my attention and more importantly, held it.
We began to spend more and more time together until it almost became understood that we were together. Life was still good at this point.
Ahhh yes the first holiday season together. Since my family is in a different state and hers is here we were apart. Hey, it is what it is. Upon my return after the holidays we had an amazing New Years Eve together. Something in my head was saying “I kinda get the feeling something is amiss”.
Lets fast forward to the part where I get the phone call from a mutual friend telling me this “amazing” girl of mine was at the bar kissing some other guy in the kitchen. This of course, is a deal breaker. Now queue the few weeks of depression and self negotiation. “Hey it will be ok we just need to work on things.”
Life is good again, everyone is soooo in love. The coming months will hold a trip to Florida together and a fun summer of exciting events. Post summer we went on another awesome trip to Florida.
Problems again. She is acting more and more distant. Winter and the holidays are approaching. This is bad. Finally I confront her about what has been going on. She says it’s all ok.
Wow, even now as I write this I am getting the events and details a bit messed up.
If finally comes to the point that she was cheating on me. I found a strange number in her phone. I ran a check on a page we use at work all the time, ReverseMobile, and was able to figure out who this guy was. (that site is the best one we have found so far. We use it for all of our phone number investigations)
Note: Not only was she cheating she was sending pictures to the guy….from the bathroom…while her and I were out to dinner… that I paid for.
Anyway, after finding out this guys name and information I decided a background investigation was in order. I have seen too many people not getting enough information first. I did a background search of him at another site we use quite often, Webstigate, which provided me with the best shocker of all.
This guy was married…and had two kids. I was able to figure out where he worked, lived, and lots of other stuff. Then through the use of our fun web sites like Myspace and Facebook I had completed my investigation.
The confrontation was miserable but it’s finally over. Hopefully my little story will be read and actually help
Considering this is my small little spot on the great big internet I am going to use it to tell my story. I will promise that it is a good one. Well, entertaining at least!
This is 100% true.
One relevant item of information is I am employed as a full time private investigator. Every day I have to deal with cheating spouses, girlfriends and boyfriends, divorces, infidelity, background searches, criminal histories, the list goes on and on. I see this stuff everyday and still fell for it. HAHA!
Along the way I am going to point out some useful resources that you may find helpful if you can relate to my story.
Where to begin? I was fresh out of college and making my way in a new state with a new job and making new friends. I was beginning to belong to a new group of people and I was loving life. Then, as we all know, things change. I met someone who seemed different than the rest of the girls out there. She really caught my attention and more importantly, held it.
We began to spend more and more time together until it almost became understood that we were together. Life was still good at this point.
Ahhh yes the first holiday season together. Since my family is in a different state and hers is here we were apart. Hey, it is what it is. Upon my return after the holidays we had an amazing New Years Eve together. Something in my head was saying “I kinda get the feeling something is amiss”.
Lets fast forward to the part where I get the phone call from a mutual friend telling me this “amazing” girl of mine was at the bar kissing some other guy in the kitchen. This of course, is a deal breaker. Now queue the few weeks of depression and self negotiation. “Hey it will be ok we just need to work on things.”
Life is good again, everyone is soooo in love. The coming months will hold a trip to Florida together and a fun summer of exciting events. Post summer we went on another awesome trip to Florida.
Problems again. She is acting more and more distant. Winter and the holidays are approaching. This is bad. Finally I confront her about what has been going on. She says it’s all ok.
Wow, even now as I write this I am getting the events and details a bit messed up.
If finally comes to the point that she was cheating on me. I found a strange number in her phone. I ran a check on a page we use at work all the time, ReverseMobile, and was able to figure out who this guy was. (that site is the best one we have found so far. We use it for all of our phone number investigations)
Note: Not only was she cheating she was sending pictures to the guy….from the bathroom…while her and I were out to dinner… that I paid for.
Anyway, after finding out this guys name and information I decided a background investigation was in order. I have seen too many people not getting enough information first. I did a background search of him at another site we use quite often, Webstigate, which provided me with the best shocker of all.
This guy was married…and had two kids. I was able to figure out where he worked, lived, and lots of other stuff. Then through the use of our fun web sites like Myspace and Facebook I had completed my investigation.
The confrontation was miserable but it’s finally over. Hopefully my little story will be read and actually help
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