Men are polygamous, that's what we have always accepted. So whenever we hear news about an infidel husband, we are not so interested about it anymore. But when a wife cheats, she becomes an instant celebrity and leaves a big mark in the society that remains throughout her lifetime. Still, the question still remains: why women cheat.
Passion is no longer there
Not too long ago, you were rocking her world, now, the only thing that is being rocked are the kids to sleep. Women who live in a monotonous lifestyle can get tired too quickly. If you say the same thing, give the same gifts, make love the same way, and go out on the same date at the same place, do not be surprised if you find your woman looking for something else. Like men, women need attention in life, so if her partner is unable to give it to her, the only way to be happy is to look for someone whom she can share her happiness.
To take revenge
Whether you believe in karma or not, if cheating to your woman one too many times, expect that revenge is on its way. Because you cheated, she wants to get back on you and give you a dose of your own medicine.
You lack intimacy From the outside, your life may seem so good: you have 3 cars, a large house, and great kids running around the yard, but deep inside, you might be lacking the most important things-the ability to keep your woman feel she is worthy. Cuddling, kissing, hugging and making love should still be part of being a married couple, especially if you already feel that you can live without them. Women need to be touched, but if you can't give the physical affection she needs, she may get it somewhere else
Bedtime is just for sleeptime Same place, same position, same setting; if you allow sex to be this way, it will become boring. Constantly reinvent your relationship at bed. Do not allow your wife to seek somewhere else, especially when the responsibility of taking care of the kids becomes your top priority and sleep is more important than sex.
She deserves someone nicer than you Marriage does not give you the right to treat her as your property. Ignoring her, being critical to her, and letting her feel she is unappreciated give her a lot of reason to give her attention to someone else. Women demand attention and need a person who makes them feel they are special so if you can't be that person, then your wife will more likely cheat.
Passion is no longer there
Not too long ago, you were rocking her world, now, the only thing that is being rocked are the kids to sleep. Women who live in a monotonous lifestyle can get tired too quickly. If you say the same thing, give the same gifts, make love the same way, and go out on the same date at the same place, do not be surprised if you find your woman looking for something else. Like men, women need attention in life, so if her partner is unable to give it to her, the only way to be happy is to look for someone whom she can share her happiness.
To take revenge
Whether you believe in karma or not, if cheating to your woman one too many times, expect that revenge is on its way. Because you cheated, she wants to get back on you and give you a dose of your own medicine.
You lack intimacy From the outside, your life may seem so good: you have 3 cars, a large house, and great kids running around the yard, but deep inside, you might be lacking the most important things-the ability to keep your woman feel she is worthy. Cuddling, kissing, hugging and making love should still be part of being a married couple, especially if you already feel that you can live without them. Women need to be touched, but if you can't give the physical affection she needs, she may get it somewhere else
Bedtime is just for sleeptime Same place, same position, same setting; if you allow sex to be this way, it will become boring. Constantly reinvent your relationship at bed. Do not allow your wife to seek somewhere else, especially when the responsibility of taking care of the kids becomes your top priority and sleep is more important than sex.
She deserves someone nicer than you Marriage does not give you the right to treat her as your property. Ignoring her, being critical to her, and letting her feel she is unappreciated give her a lot of reason to give her attention to someone else. Women demand attention and need a person who makes them feel they are special so if you can't be that person, then your wife will more likely cheat.
About the Author:
Walter Hunt is a blogger and a regular contributor to different relationship websites. He has helped men understand clearly the reason why women cheat.
My husband and i got Married last year and we have been living happily for a while. We used to be free with everything and never kept any secret from each other until recently everything changed when he got a new Job in NewYork 2 months ago. He has been avoiding my calls and told me he is working,i got suspicious when i saw a comment of a woman on his Facebook Picture and the way he replied her. I asked my husband about it and he told me that she is co-worker in his organization,We had a big argument and he has not been picking my calls,this went on for long until one day i decided to notify my friend about this and that was how she introduced me to Mr James(Worldcyberhackers@ gmail. com) a Private Investigator who helped her when she was having issues with her Husband. I never believed he could do it but until i gave him my husbands Mobile phone number. He proved to me by hacking into my husbands phone. where i found so many evidence and proof in his Text messages, Emails and pictures that my husband has an affairs with another woman.i have sent all the evidence to our lawyer. I just want to thank Mr James for helping me because i have all the evidence and proof to my lawyer,I Feel so sad about infidelity.
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