Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Reasons Why Boys Cheat

By Aidyn H. Wages

Many women want to know why men cheat. This age-old still has puzzled the female population, or at least those who had the first-hand experience.

Top reasons why men cheat are found below:

They are is something missing Men are like women, they need emotional attention even if you think they don't.

Men want to be constantly reassured that they are appreciated and loved. Without reassurance from their partner, men feel unworthy and begin to drift from attachment.What happens is, they seek attention from someone who can give them what they need.

It's in the veins

Watching animal Planet will give you a clear picture why men is more likely to cheat. Male's main job is to protect his territory and spread his seed in order to ensure the continuity of his bloodline. Meaning, it is in his nature to knock on someone else's hut to ensure that his genes continue. However, this doesn't mean that cheating is inevitable; despite his nature, men need to fight it-especially after a pitcher or two.

As a sign of saying goodbye Most guys who fell out of love don't have the guts to say to their partner the truth- they simply do not know how to end the relationship. Perhaps because they don't want to make the first move or don't want to be labelled as jerk who ended something that is good. Instead, they tip-toe around to get their woman leave him for good.

As a reassurance that he is still attractive Once married a man (or a married woman) is expected not to flirt around other for the rest of his life, or at least until he is legally separated.However, men has the tendency to get bored and look somewhere else to satisfy his physical and emotionsl needs. Think of your relationship as a playlist of songs that plays over and over again; it will be just a matter of time when you get tired of listening to it. Men have to update thier playlist regularly, but if they can't get it from their partner, they will look somewhere else.

To get attention Men do not cheat simply because they need to have sex with another woman.

Sure, they have sex with other woman/women but that's not the sole reason why men cheat cheat. Men need attention but if it is not available at home, time will come that will get out and seek attention to someone else's home. Seeing you naked will do the trick for a while but what's important is to make him feel worthy of more than just shovelling the snow off your driveway.

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