If you are suspecting that your partner is cheating on you, then you would want to know if youre right or wrong. Even though you know it would cause you pain, it would be better knowing, so you can stop constantly be questioning him or her.
The problem is, even if you feel that you really know your partner, it can be hard to recognise the signs of him or her cheating. Usually you just get the feeling something isn't right...
If your spouse is cheating he or she will do just about anything to keep it a secret, which probably makes it meaningless to approach, thus you would be told flat out: Im not cheating, even if that would be the case. This is why it's important that you have a sound suspicion - or even proof - before you confront a cheating spouse.
10 different signs you could look for:
1. Your spouse gives you more attention. Normally this happens in the beginning of an affair due to the guilt the cheater is feeling.
2. Your spouse starts to find faults with you. This is to justify what he or she is doing is wrong.
3. When your spouse is on the phone he or she lowers the voice or even enters another room.
4. The amount of overtime is suddenly increasing. (If you want to verify, you cold check your partners pay check)
5. If you discover your spouse isnt where he or she is supposed to be, you might be suspicious. For example, if there are unexplainable hours between client meetings or "needs to be at some meeting during weekends, you maybe should raise the red flag...
6. If your spouse becomes restless and is having a hard time enjoying time with the family, you should be questioning why. A content spouse would enjoy spending time from work with the family.
7. You have a decreasing amount of arguments. A partner who is cheating is often willing to start a fight so he or she gets the opportunity to leave the house and meet up with the lover.
8. Your sex life changes. Either you start to have more sex, and your partner might want you to try out new things, or your sex life gets reduced considerably.
9. Your partner spends more money than usual.
10. Your spouse starts to pay more attention to his or her grooming habits and physical fitness. He or she could even be buying new clothes and change style.
If you have evidence of your partner having an affair, you might consider a confrontation. Always approach your partner in a calm, non-violent manner. You could ask if there is an affair going on and then you just have to LISTEN. Without interrupting. You might find out there is a perfectly logical reason for the recent changes, and in that case you have to apologize, from your heart. If your partner on the other hand should confess to cheating, sit down and listen as to why.
Most of the time people have affairs because they are feeling something is missing in the relationship. Therefore, if you still love each other, you need to hear your spouse out to find out the reason, which might be hard to hear... Remember, even though there might be tears and screaming, the two of you really need to discuss things through to determine your next step.
Now that you've talked about it, the two of you have to make a choice. Either you decide to work on the problem together or you can decide to end the marriage.
Either way, facing the facts of a cheating partner will be one of the most difficult things you ever will have to deal with. Many times, the marriage can be saved, but if you cant make it, you deserve to move on with someone you can trust.
The problem is, even if you feel that you really know your partner, it can be hard to recognise the signs of him or her cheating. Usually you just get the feeling something isn't right...
If your spouse is cheating he or she will do just about anything to keep it a secret, which probably makes it meaningless to approach, thus you would be told flat out: Im not cheating, even if that would be the case. This is why it's important that you have a sound suspicion - or even proof - before you confront a cheating spouse.
10 different signs you could look for:
1. Your spouse gives you more attention. Normally this happens in the beginning of an affair due to the guilt the cheater is feeling.
2. Your spouse starts to find faults with you. This is to justify what he or she is doing is wrong.
3. When your spouse is on the phone he or she lowers the voice or even enters another room.
4. The amount of overtime is suddenly increasing. (If you want to verify, you cold check your partners pay check)
5. If you discover your spouse isnt where he or she is supposed to be, you might be suspicious. For example, if there are unexplainable hours between client meetings or "needs to be at some meeting during weekends, you maybe should raise the red flag...
6. If your spouse becomes restless and is having a hard time enjoying time with the family, you should be questioning why. A content spouse would enjoy spending time from work with the family.
7. You have a decreasing amount of arguments. A partner who is cheating is often willing to start a fight so he or she gets the opportunity to leave the house and meet up with the lover.
8. Your sex life changes. Either you start to have more sex, and your partner might want you to try out new things, or your sex life gets reduced considerably.
9. Your partner spends more money than usual.
10. Your spouse starts to pay more attention to his or her grooming habits and physical fitness. He or she could even be buying new clothes and change style.
If you have evidence of your partner having an affair, you might consider a confrontation. Always approach your partner in a calm, non-violent manner. You could ask if there is an affair going on and then you just have to LISTEN. Without interrupting. You might find out there is a perfectly logical reason for the recent changes, and in that case you have to apologize, from your heart. If your partner on the other hand should confess to cheating, sit down and listen as to why.
Most of the time people have affairs because they are feeling something is missing in the relationship. Therefore, if you still love each other, you need to hear your spouse out to find out the reason, which might be hard to hear... Remember, even though there might be tears and screaming, the two of you really need to discuss things through to determine your next step.
Now that you've talked about it, the two of you have to make a choice. Either you decide to work on the problem together or you can decide to end the marriage.
Either way, facing the facts of a cheating partner will be one of the most difficult things you ever will have to deal with. Many times, the marriage can be saved, but if you cant make it, you deserve to move on with someone you can trust.
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